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I have periodically obtained 'invites' from people, most of whom I recognize only slightly, to join them on Facebook. I've no desire to join Facebook, so simply neglect these. The other day, however, I got yet an additional invitation, from someone that runs art courses I once checked. Beneath, Facebook notes three other individuals that have welcomed me in the past. And also, below that, there is a listing of 9 other individuals 'whom you might know'-- none of whom have ever before welcomed me, and 3 of whom I have had only very basic contact with-- eg a single enquiry made to an archivist.

This really frets me-- exactly how does Facebook know that I have ever before had any kind of contact with these people? Can Facebook gain access to their e-mails, see where they are all going to, and also cross-reference them with individuals who have obtained an invite from in other places? Or can they, having as soon as been given my email address, in some way gain access to my Sent messages, see where they are being sent to, and cross-reference them versus their existing Facebook membership ??

This truly stresses me-- it just appears such an invasion of my privacy, and also worries me that they may have the ability to accessibility all kind of personal information as well as conversations.

Can you clarify how this can be happening, as well as suggest any way to block it, please??

I'm not privy to all the information of how Facebook works. That being claimed, I can predict regarding how Facebook (or any kind of social network with similar capabilities) might be making these recommendations.

No, Facebook is not checking out anyone's email (beyond messages sent on Facebook itself).

Facebook pal tips as well as invitations to join Facebook-- whether emailed, or tips when signed in to Facebook-- are nothing more than what I would certainly characterize as extremely informed guesses.

Tom and Penis, fulfill Harry

Right here's one method I believe this occurs:

  • Your buddy "Tom" sends you a close friend demand, which you disregard. Nonetheless, Facebook keeps in mind that he did so.

  • One more buddy, "Prick", likewise sends you a pal request, which you also neglect. Once more, Facebook keeps in mind.

  • " Tom" and "Penis" have a buddy in common-- I'll call him "Harry". Both Tom and also Penis invited Harry to be buddies, and Harry accepted.


So, below's what Facebook understands:

  • Tom asserts to recognize you.

  • Cock asserts to know you.

  • Tom and also Cock both recognize Harry.


The educated hunch is: since Tom as well as Prick both declare to understand you as well as Harry, possibly you recognize Harry. Thus, Harry becomes an "various other individual you might recognize".

And also you might. Or you could not.

Common rate of interests

One more situation plays out based not on mutual friends, but mutual rate of interests.

  • As before, your pal "Tom" sends you a pal demand, which you disregard and Facebook remembers.

  • " Penis" additionally sends you a pal demand, which you also disregard and also Facebook keeps in mind.

  • " Tom" as well as "Prick" both occur to have actually "Liked" a page on Corgis.


So, right here's what Facebook understands:

  • Tom declares to understand you.

  • Cock asserts to understand you.

  • Tom and also Prick both like a Corgi page.


A various educated assumption is that since Tom as well as Penis both recognize you, and also they share a liking of Corgis, you might additionally such as Corgis. Actually, you might such as to be buddies with other people who also liked the Corgi page. So Facebook selects somebody randomly who additionally likes the Corgi web page and also recommends that you might like to be buddies.

Of course, if there's more overlap-- more shared rate of interests Facebook knows about-- it might choose people who have the most alike with Tom and Penis, and hence with any luck you.

If you are currently on Facebook

This sort of shared-connections-and-interests analysis goes on in dramatically more information if you currently have a Facebook account. Facebook after that can toss right into the calculation the web pages you liked, the buddies you accepted, the messages you clicked on, suched as, as well as shared, and also also your place and also various other data you have actually offered it.

The result is that they might suggest complete strangers as feasible buddies.

I discover about 50% of Facebook's initial suggestions are individuals I don't recognize, and also about fifty percent of the rest are people I might recognize however don't wish to connect with anyhow.

It's not something I stress over

Now, as I claimed, I do not know precisely just how Facebook-- or any type of social network-- actually works. Actually, I 'd want to bet that the information are considerably much more intricate. If nothing else, they are privy to millions of relationship links, interests, as well as activities to make these inferences.

But I want to bet it's just that: absolutely nothing more than Facebook examining all the information its participants have offered to presume that could understand that-- also for individuals that are not yet members.

I get that it could appear a little scary, however I do not believe it's as intrusive as you are afraid. It's simply using the social relationships its participants give to make a couple of well-read guesses.

Unfortunately, to answer your last question, I'm not knowledgeable about a method to in fact block Facebook's emailed invitations, besides to possibly report them as spam.