Facebook Friend Suggestions

Suggest Friends On Facebook



I have occasionally received 'invitations' from individuals, the majority of whom I know only slightly, to join them on Facebook. I have actually no desire to join Facebook, so simply ignore these. Yesterday, nevertheless, I received yet an additional invite, from somebody who runs art classes I once checked. Below, Facebook details three other individuals who have actually invited me in the past. And also, listed below that, there is a listing of 9 other individuals 'whom you may understand'-- none of whom have ever before invited me, as well as 3 of whom I have actually had just extremely fundamental contact with-- eg a single query made to an archivist.

This really worries me-- just how does Facebook understand that I have ever before had any type of contact with these people? Can Facebook access their e-mails, see where they are all mosting likely to, and also cross-reference them with individuals that have obtained an invite from elsewhere? Or can they, having when been provided my email address, somehow access to my Sent messages, see where they are being sent out to, and cross-reference them against their existing Facebook membership ??

This truly worries me-- it just seems such an invasion of my personal privacy, as well as concerns me that they might have the ability to access all sorts of individual info and also discussions.

Can you clarify exactly how this can be taking place, and also suggest any way to obstruct it, please??

I'm not privy to all the information of just how Facebook functions. That being stated, I can predict regarding exactly how Facebook (or any type of social media network with similar capacities) may be making these recommendations.

No, Facebook is not checking out anybody's email (beyond messages sent on Facebook itself).

Facebook good friend ideas as well as invitations to join Facebook-- whether emailed, or tips when checked in to Facebook-- are absolutely nothing greater than what I would certainly characterize as extremely educated hunches.

Tom as well as Prick, satisfy Harry

Here's one means I believe this occurs:

  • Your good friend "Tom" sends you a good friend request, which you neglect. However, Facebook remembers that he did so.

  • Another pal, "Dick", also sends you a good friend demand, which you likewise ignore. Once more, Facebook remembers.

  • " Tom" and "Cock" have a buddy in common-- I'll call him "Harry". Both Tom as well as Prick welcomed Harry to be pals, as well as Harry approved.


So, below's what Facebook knows:

  • Tom claims to recognize you.

  • Dick asserts to know you.

  • Tom and also Dick both know Harry.


The informed guess is: given that Tom and Dick both declare to understand you as well as Harry, possibly you know Harry. Hence, Harry becomes an "other individual you may know".

And also you might. Or you could not.

Common passions

An additional situation plays out based out mutual friends, however mutual rate of interests.

  • As in the past, your good friend "Tom" sends you a pal demand, which you disregard and also Facebook remembers.

  • " Dick" additionally sends you a close friend request, which you also overlook and also Facebook remembers.

  • " Tom" as well as "Prick" both happen to have "Suched as" a web page on Corgis.


So, below's what Facebook knows:

  • Tom claims to recognize you.

  • Dick claims to know you.

  • Tom as well as Penis both like a Corgi web page.


A different educated assumption is that since Tom and Cock both understand you, and also they share a preference of Corgis, you could also such as Corgis. In fact, you might like to be good friends with other people that likewise liked the Corgi web page. So Facebook selects somebody at random who also suches as the Corgi page as well as suggests that you might such as to be close friends.

Of course, if there's more overlap-- even more mutual rate of interests Facebook learns about-- it could select people that have the most in common with Tom and Cock, and also hence with any luck you.

If you are currently on Facebook

This kind of shared-connections-and-interests evaluation goes on in dramatically even more detail if you already have a Facebook account. Facebook then can toss right into the calculation the web pages you liked, the close friends you approved, the posts you clicked, liked, and also shared, and also even your place and also various other data you've offered it.

The result is that they could recommend total unfamiliar people as feasible buddies.

I locate concerning 50% of Facebook's first suggestions are people I do not recognize, and also about fifty percent of the remainder are individuals I may know yet don't intend to connect with anyway.

It's not something I stress over

Currently, as I stated, I do not know exactly how Facebook-- or any social media network-- actually functions. As a matter of fact, I would certainly agree to wager that the information are significantly extra complex. If absolutely nothing else, they are privy to numerous connection links, interests, and activities to make these reasonings.

However I'm willing to bet it's simply that: nothing greater than Facebook evaluating all the data its members have provided to infer who may understand who-- also for individuals that are not yet participants.

I obtain that it may appear a little weird, yet I don't believe it's as invasive as you are afraid. It's merely using the social relationships its participants provide to make a few well-read guesses.

However, to answer your last question, I'm not familiar with a way to really obstruct Facebook's emailed invitations, besides to possibly report them as spam.